Sunday, 24 September 2017

How perfect are they?

So, a lot of people wonder whether they have found themselves the perfect partner or at least someone they are able to get on with but more than a friend. I was thinking about what were the top 10 qualities and characteristics that really make me tick and there are my 10. This was quite hard to narrow it down and probably will undergone revisions but here is it now.

I chose 10 things, because it would mean you could rate someone out of 10 for each item and then have a total at the end out of 100. This would then give you a percentage. I suppose, for every person some of the items will be more important than others. You could also rate yourself and people you know, and see how you score. What's your threshold that separates someone who is a friend to someone who is more than that?


1 Attractiveness 

This refers to physical looks. A perfect 10 would be sexy, cool, hot and cute. 

2 Sense of humour 

Someone who makes you laugh and lifts your mood up instantly.

3 Generosity 

How willing are they towards you and others in terms of giving on a daily basis without being overly generous or feeling obliged to do so.

Adventurous 

This refers to them being adventurous. Are they as excited as you in the things you enjoy doing, for me this would include travelling and exploring. Even if they are not always adventurous, it is important for me that they have that sense of adventure and willing to try at the very minimum. They have to know how to have fun.

5 Ambitious 

Someone who is quite sure of what their future involves, aims high yet works hard for it both professionally and personally.

6 Faithfulness/Dependability 

Someone who you feel is trustworthy, who you can dependent on and will be faithful.

7 Affectionate/romantic/passionate 

Someone who can respond on a physical, emotional and verbal level and demonstrating feelings of warmth and tenderness. Yet also someone who can sweep you off your feet and give you that special feeling from time to time. 

8 Openness/honesty 

This one may sound strange to many, but for me this is something very important for me. Openness for me refers to someone who can tell you things and be honest with you, they want to share things with you no matter how mundane and ask for your advice and opinion without making you feel like you're their mother. Someone who wants to share things with you.

9 Intelligence 

This refers to emotional intelligence too as well as being smart. They would ideally have some life skills as well as being book smart. Someone who can teach you things and keep you stimulated. 

10 Maturity 

Someone who is mature doesn't mean boring. Someone who shows maturity is someone who knows how to look after you, take initiatives and are pro-active and is not afraid of taking responsibility with a degree of confidence and presents themselves in a confident manner.  



I suppose, for me to find someone compatible would be someone who would score similar to how I would score myself. Someone who is perfect, would score significantly higher.



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